Beauty / Feminism / Society & Culture

Play With Your Expression

This past Winter I went out of the house in full-dude drag. Head-to-to, binding and all. It was a totally unique and amazing experience to see how people react to clothing, mannerisms, and lack of boobs on a female. Genderfucking, the act of messing with traditional notions of gender identity and gender roles, is actually a great way to be a little more aware of how society treats men, women, male-identity, female-identity, and people that fall in-between the gender spectrum. It can go from a female wearing men’s clothes or a male wearing a skirt and a beard.

As much as I love my femme identity, sometimes I wake up and want to partake in a totally different gender expression. We don’t always fall on the far right or far left of most things…so why should we stick to that when we express ourselves? However, sometimes when you have more curves it’s hard to pick out what might look best with clothes that normally have a straight-form (like most male-centric clothing). Not to worry. I’ve found some standards. Feeling a little brave? Try something new this Fall.

Here are some idea for classic masculine and feminine looks:


Saturday Special
Classic Femme


Gender Expression: External manifestation of one’s gender identity, usually expressed through “masculine,” “feminine” or gender-variant behavior, clothing, haircut, voice or body characteristics.

Laura Delarato is a web producer, writer, social media consultant, video creator, and the brain behind Pass The Cake, Please fashion blog. She has spent a lot of the past 10-years of her life in internships, college, part-time jobs, graduate school, and in front of a computer typing away her next brilliant idea. Her work has appeared in Playgirl Magazine, Kong Magazine, London Glossy Magazine—and at one time CosmoGirl! Magazine. Laura spends a lot of her time typing code to make the internet work, performing improv at The Magnet Theater in NYC, and performing burlesque on every dingy bar stage she can find. Laura likes to be a total badass by participating in body-positive/fat-acceptance activism, crafting pasties, discussing the beauty of pornography, and wearing all the short skirts. Follow her at @lauradelarato


2 thoughts on “Play With Your Expression

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  2. Cross dressing is one of the things that I wish more people would do. It would be a great benefit to both men and women to actually experience what it is like to present yourself as the other gender. It really is a different world when you are perceived as male vs female.

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