<b>Seeking Arrangement:</b> On My Brief & Failed Attempt at Becoming a Sugar Baby
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Seeking Arrangement: On My Brief & Failed Attempt at Becoming a Sugar Baby

I signed up with Seeking Arrangement in 2010, when I was living in Brooklyn, NY and—due to rent, road trips and too many visits from the weed delivery service—somewhat cash-strapped. But more than that, I was curious. Single for more-or-less the first time since age 17, this was the same time period when I first began blushingly perusing the Craigslist casual encounters ads. I wanted adventure. I wanted money. This seemed like a good way to satisfy both needs.
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On Facials, Feminism and Hugo Schwyzer’s “Fraud”
Sex & Love / Society & Culture / Staff Picks

On Facials, Feminism and Hugo Schwyzer’s “Fraud”

When people have trouble reconciling feminist narratives with their own lives, we should consider that it might be a problem with the narrative, not the individual. Abortion doesn’t have to be the feminist litmus test. People fall for people, not their ages. Solidarity isn’t a given. Sadists aren’t always sexist. Facials aren’t always degrading. Continue reading