Like Grey Gardens but Not: Mothers and Daughters I have been thinking a lot about mothers and daughters lately. I blame it on four things: 1. I keep seeing the commercial for Flowers in the Attic coming on Lifetime. (One of my favorite books as a teenager, and man, what a mean mother) 2. I’m … Continue reading
Category Archives: Sex & Love
Becoming A Caretaker: An Imperfect (But Not Entirely Terrible) Guide
Becoming a caretaker may not even involve your parents, you could find yourself caring for a friend, grandparent, or neighbor. You may be put into the role when you’re older, or you may find yourself in a situation similar to mine- unexpected and unprepared and relatively young. There are some valuable lessons to be learned through the experience, and a few key points to keep in mind. Continue reading
Get Heated: Sex, Fantasy & Horror Reads
Now that the festivities have come to end and the year has just begun it’s time to get our reading caps on. Winter is a good time to build upon our literary arsenal. With the right books we can provide our own warmth and generate heat to move us forward, take us into new realms, … Continue reading
[LOVE] Okcupid: A Double-Edged Sword of Empowerment & Sexual Perversity
“Maybe you should try online dating.” Ten years ago, that was something you never wanted to hear. Now, it’s no big deal. These days, most people have tried online dating at least once. It’s simply another way people socialize; the internet has forever changed the way we interact. The world is no longer the one our … Continue reading
[TV] “You’re The Dumbest & The Smartest Fucking Person” – The Problem with Homeland’s Carrie Mathison
Unfortunately, Carrie Mathison represents a myriad of internalized negative stereotypes about women. Continue reading
7 Tips To Get Your Flirt On (And Still Feel Like A Feminist In The Morning)
If we could all walk into a party and booty wave like Beyonce, working the room would be NBD. The key to being a good flirt, however, does not lie in your ass-ets, but in your sass-ets, also known as your sass factor. How can you up yours? Be unapologetic, effortless, and authentic (and if … Continue reading
[REVIEW] The G-Vibe Noir: Or, My New Obsession
I rarely meet a vibrator that does the job all by itself. But the G-Vibe? This thing is wild. Continue reading
6 Modern Boy/Girl Duets That Are Totally Worth Your While
Let’s go a step beyond the ever-loved Moldy Peaches song, “Anybody Else But You,” and take a peek at other duets of the past decade. Long gone are the days of schmaltzy love songs (thankfully). That said, boy/girl duets are still very popular. Below are tracks that ought to be recognized for how sincere, open, and relatable they are. Much appreciation for the modern twist of the classic song style. Continue reading
[Confession] I Used To Be A “Slut,” But Have I Become A Prude?
Sometimes, I feel as if I have woken up in an alien realm where sex is everywhere, but nothing is sexy. Continue reading
[Confession] Why Is Everyone So Obsessed With Age Gaps In Relationships?
If we as a society are so fascinated with these age gap relationships, we need to stand back actually and listen to the people involved. Continue reading
7 Things Every Woman Should Know About Sex (Or At Least Remind Herself)
A month or so ago, a Reddit thread asking commenters to share things about sex they wish they were told but weren’t went absolutely viral. Many women’s pubs ran with this idea tweaking it ever so slightly. I think that’s a great thing, because whether we know these things, or need a little reminding the … Continue reading
Stop Spreading Garbage Around On Facebook [A Response To The “Brangelina Letter”]
About that suspect Brangelina letter: what the ACTUAL fuck? Continue reading
Be Kind(er): Ways To Treat Yourself Better In The New Year
Hey, you! Be nice to yourself, cause ain’t no one gonna do it for you. Continue reading
Luna Luna Love & Lust: Fuck Buddy 101, Getting a Beau to Back Off, and Pregnancy and Periods!
Blowjobs and pregnancy. And lurve. Continue reading
10 Holiday Sex Do’s & Don’t’s
A huge part of sex is feeling proud of your own body and what it can do. That’s the sexiest way I know to go into the New Year. Continue reading